Let it go ...
this last day of 2013. Forgive yourself. And forgive everyone else. Don't tie up your energy in the past - it changes nothing. Any situation that gives you a negative emotional charge, is an indication that you are still attached, that your energy is still tied up in that person or event. And you may need some help processing the situation so, that you can get to a place where you can make the choice to let it go.
In the words of Sia (from the song, "Lullaby"):
"Make a wish upon a star. Do the work and you'll go far ...
Place your past into a book. Burn the pages, watch them cook ...
And you'll stand tall. Yes, you will fall. Don't break the spell of a lifetime trying to do well"
Take inventory of the past year. What (and who) are you holding on to?
"Make a wish upon a star ... do the work and you'll go far ..."
Let it go & welcome the blank slate of the New Year!